Sex Myths and Media: A Video Rant!
Okay so low key, being a sex coach has ruined my ability to just watch and enjoy TV/movies 😂
BUT, media gets sex WRONG so often! I also know how much media impacted my ideas about sex as a young person, and no doubt you’ve had similar experiences.
I talked about this a tiny bit in IG stories yesterday but I’ll drop the videos below so you can see exactly what I mean:
Not only was there no condom, and no consent in the scene (and a lot of scenes like it) there was no stimulation/foreplay. We have seen it 10,000 times! A man and a woman run to each other like magnets and within 30 seconds, there is penetration. IDK about you but every time I see that I say “OUCH BITCH, what?!”
Beyond the fact that a lot of these scenes aren’t realistic, they create unnecessary insecurities for people.
Let me be the first to remind you that
Sex in movies/TV is SCRIPTED!
You should never compare your REAL SEX LIFE to fictional characters
It’s normal to need foreplay and lube before penetration. It’s actually dangerous to begin penetration on a dry p*ssy.
But what do you think? Does the media have a responsibility to show sex in a realistic way? Orrr do you think I’m over reacting? Let me know!
Remember you are divine and deserving of pleasure!
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