ABOUT ME
I started my journey as a sex coach at puberty. My mother (like many 90’s mom’s) did not have the language to teach me about sex, periods and my body. But she did have the wisdom to help me learn what I needed to know on my own. She checked out some books about bodies and puberty and sex from our local library. I never stopped wanting to learn and read about human sexuality and the truth about pleasure.
Today, I show up in the world as a sex coach, a mentor, a guide, a healer, a mirror.
I know that we are all divine + deserving of pleasure, and I spends my days exposing my own truths and troubles as a means to help others.
In my years as a sex coach,I have been featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, Glamour UK , and podcasts such as “Doing It” with Hannah Witton, “The Glow West Podcast” With Dr. Caroline West, and “Am I Making You Uncomfortable” from Huffington Post.
I’m a sex coach, but I haven’t always been sexually confident and free.
Like many of you reading this, I spent years and years of my adult life thinking “isn’t sex supposed to be better than this?” and wondering if i was broken. My childhood and adolescence was filled with sexual shaming and religious pressure to “save myself” for marriage.
All of this showed up in my adult sexual encounters and caused me to fake orgasms, focus on my partners more than my own pleasure, feel distracted during sex and have less than satisfying experiences (even when I was alone!)
Midway through my twenties, I went through a sexual liberation journey that I am happy to say:
1. I am still on 2. Changed my life
I learned that when we take control of our sexuality, we take control of our lives. And now, I want to help you do the same!
TESTIMONIALS
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"My experience with Portia as a guide was gentle, honest, loving, and true...Portia created this tangible safety of this experience. naturally guiding me through uncomfortable topics with love and care."
— Vanessa, 34
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"Portia was such an incredible coach, and provided so many additional resources! Radiant, a wonderful listener, fantastic motivator. It felt like talking to an old friend.
— Kelly, 27
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"Portia was precious and tender with [me]. She is truly a healer and a cultivator of wellness. I so appreciated her wise words and also how in tune she was with me. I appreciate her sensitivity to my lived experience and she was also trauma informed.The playlists were dope at every session and she always gave concrete tools for making me meet my best self along the way."
— Angela, 32
MY guiding principals
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You are the expert
It all starts by learning how to focus on what you want.
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I am the guide
Next, you’ll reflect on what may be blocking you, and learn how to overcome these obstacles.
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Your body is the teacher
The last step? We learn how to continually refine what we’ve learned. Think of this as your new beginning.